Hey Guys!
I had this thought earlier today.I would rather frame it as question.
why are some people rejected in the community?i'm not talking about rejections due to caste or creed or religion or race or whatever.I'm stressing on why are some people inferior or we can also see it as why are some people dominant over others?
After a lots of head breaking and reasoning i finally came to a conclusion that human brains can figure out weather the other person which you are speaking to falls above your energy level or below or you are approximately equal.You might call me mad because you might have not experienced both(being on the either sides of the energy levels)
So, i divided the whole human race into three categories from my perspective
1.low energy bands
2.High energy bands
3.same level bands
all this energy band thing is from individual perspectives.for example i might mark a guy in my office as a low energized and some other might see him as high energized.All this high energized and low energized thing is decided by our brain. Dont you believe me?
yes, it is true.Any person's brain starts assessment on the other person even if you are not unintentional,based upon some of the inputs given by the opposite person like his personality or his talking style or his mannerisms in fact all these physical signs will be taken as inputs and our brain generates a report based on all these factors and saves it.I know you are laughing from ur bottom of you heart.But gimme a chance and let me break this down for you.
let us take a test environment say that you went to meet your friend and he introduced you to his friends.assume that you never met his friends before.assume that there are two guys one is very decently dressed and the other is not so decently dressed.Here our brain comes into the picture and starts acting weather if u are intended to asses him or not dosent matter its starts its work any way.
as soon as you see them the first impression marked in you head says that this guy looks decent and the other looks not so decent.this this the first input.let us assume that the guy who is decently dressed takes some time to talk to new persons,where as the other guy starts off and speaks in a very good manner.here again you brain starts making impressions that the other guy is not so socializing and this guy is good.Now let us assume that the other guy who was sitting calm for a while starts speaking but he dosent reach your first impression or the first report which our mind has given.then you generally mark this guy as a low energized.but the other guy which was not well dressed is not yet assigned with an energy band.our brain needs some more inputs to assign this guy until then he will stay in the same energy band or we can say that your frequency and this other guys frequency are in a match.
if this frequency match will stay unaltered for a very long tym you both will be good friends.
the other guy is marked under the low frequency band and you always try to dominate this guy like you dont give attention to his inputs in any plan or you might not even care him some times....this is what i call energy gap.so just think of an electron to jump from a lower energy band to higher energy band it requires some energy that can knock him out of this band...this literally means that he should do something extraordinary such that he fall in the same frequency level or he jumps to the higher energy band.
There is one more case. Any ways the lower band is subset of the higher band so you must not consider all this bull shit and rate a person and go speak to him if he does not speak to you.
and this kind of friendship lasts forever or at least it will be happy for you from your perspective.
i could not share my thoughts clearly here...if you want to contact me on any questions or comments or tips or suggestions
here is my email id
pldeepesh@gmail.com
Signing Off,
LAKSHMAN DEEPESH REDDY
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